Jesus, bless me... Mamma, bless me

At noon everyday,

I hear the chiming bell of the Angelus

And each time I hear it,

It takes me back.


Back to chapels where schoolgirls stood in line, waiting to enter, 

And hoping to stay long enough to skip Math class.

Children stepping through the dark corridors, stepping softly, silently, 

Barefoot 

Onto cool marble floors

The clean smell of emptiness in the dark chapel

A solitary flame flickering before the Sacred Heart statue

Warming the deep red glass that holds it in a perpetual embrace

With its dark sense of mystery, the chapel felt both dangerous and welcoming.


It takes me back...

To churches and their sweet smelling, highly polished wooden pews

And the grandeur of it all

Fat hymnals, yellowed and frayed at the spines, 

Girls in poofy Sunday dresses, patent leather shoes and socks that held a dainty rim of lace to match the ribbons in their hair.

Some with bowed heads, arms outstretched, eyes shut as they said their prayers

Some heads modestly covered in satin scarves that they were forced to wear by devout grandmothers 

Old priests in chasubles with glimmers of gold 

That caught the light with every animated movement 

Of arms waving about wildly 

As they loudly delivered sermons to the congregation. 


It takes me back

To impressive collections of medals, scapulas and rosaries

Collected in chocolate tins over the years,

At church, catechism classes and Bible camps.

At family get-togethers and while chatting with Sister Roselyn over juice and coconut cookies after lengthy novenas and vigils. 

Pretty prayer cards embossed with gold, bordered with pink roses and laminated

Pulled out from the deep mysterious pockets of a nun's habit

Each promising to be miraculous 

Holding hope

Beneath the layers of lamination plastic and in the eyes of the pretty saints 

And in the glow of the halo of the Virgin Mary.

All these treasures handed to us by aunts, uncles, priests and nuns, or maybe by Grandma.

Each of them holding a story, a memory, and a special, peculiar feeling that can't be named.


It takes me back...

To saying the rosary

After dinner

Pappa standing tall, closest to the altar

All of us behind him

Some of us giggling

Some of us exhausted

Some of us solemnly saying the prayers, setting a good example for the younger ones. 

Some waiting for us to be done with the rosary


When Pappa would lift us up to reach the altar to kiss the Sacred Heart, 

And then Mamma's picture 

So we could go to bed after hearing Pappa say the words for us...

Jesus, bless me...

Mamma, bless me.


©️ Rebecca Manari

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